Thursday, October 8, 2026

"When autumn comes is a fool's guess"


"To what can our life on earth be likened?
To a flock of geese,
alighting on the snow.
Sometimes leaving a trace of their passage."
-  Su Shi






It naturally thrives in dry woodlands, fields, 
woodland edges, and rocky, limestone, or clay soils—
all of which are common in Middle Tennessee's landscape.


Above - Maybe Ocola Skipper Butterfly (long-winged skipper)
Below - Leaf Cutter Bee





The Pure Golden Green Sweat Bee, Augochlora pura 
displays metallic tones that are usually bright green,
 but sometimes coppery or golden, 
and even a deep dark green that looks almost blue.
It is an extremely beautiful bee that poses no threat to gardeners.


Augochlora makes her nests under the loose bark of old fallen trees. 
She builds cells made of mud and debris 
found under the bark that she glues together. 
She works throughout the days gathering pollen from her favorite flowers, 
carrying it back to her log home on her hind legs. 
In her nest, she mixes the pollen with some nectar and her own saliva. 
Scientists think that her saliva has antiseptic qualities 
that help keep this food fresh and add extra protection to the eggs. 


Once she has gathered enough food for one larva she lays an egg 
inside the cell and seals it. Her nests are lined 
with an impermeable thin membrane 
that she produces from glands on her body. 
The nests need all this protection because there are marauding ants 
and many other little predators that would promptly devour her babies.








Seeds


Bright yellow flowers in center are unpollinated.
The brown ones are pollinated and have no more nectar or pollen
Two outside petals have curled up and died, turning a dark purple.
When all petals have curled up the seeds begin to mature.








Striped Hoverfly (Syrphidae)








 Pearl Crescent Butterfly (Phyciodes tharos)


Common Eastern Bumblebee


This one was about twice as large
as the ones I usually see.














Common checkered-skipper Butterfly, Pyrgus communis


Larvae feed on the leaves of plants in the mallow family.





The hairs are brown or black with some white on the female,
and bluish-gray with some white on the male.


Maybe Ochlodes sylvanoides, the woodland skipper








Not the best of photos, but it shows the white patch on the 
male Carpenter Bee's face which is quite large on this one bee.


A number of Carpenter Bees were on the Pink Turtlehead plants, 
robbing (as many call it) the last of the nectar 
by slitting a hole at the base of the flowers 
and eating the nectar for long periods of time. 


Swamp Sunflower buds just beginning to open.


Beautyberry 





October 8, 2026

Dear Friends,

Splendid day today! 

Slept for four hours, took a potty break, then stared at the ceiling listening to gentle music that would lull me back to sleep.

As you may guess, I stared at that ceiling for two hours but was gifted with a visit from Charlotte asking for a massage.  Cats can often be so demanding, but she was full of sweet nothings, so I accommodated her wishes.

If you are not a person who has been chosen by a cat seeking free lodging, you may fail to understand the dramatics of a cat who will fight almost to the death to be nowhere near the cat carrier, let alone in it. 

One must do that deep breathing, in through the nose and out through the mouth, relax, baby, relax.  Pretend it is just another day in the neighborhood, and it is breakfast as usual.  If those words cat carrier pops into your head, your cat will know before you do what the intended fate is.  You’re so cooked if you’ve reached this point.

Nothing humbles a person more that crawling on all fours, sweeping a broom under the couch to chase your little baby into the hallway where all doors will be closed except the room you intend to trap him in, although Vic forgot to open one of the doors, so each time Austin ran down the hallway, it was back out in a flash and under the couch again.

I suggested to Vic that a deep breath to regain his senses, and perhaps taking a moment to open my writing room door might be more rewarding.  Easy peasy…well, I lied a bit there, but Austin finally surrendered, seeing it was a futile cause trying to stay free.  Poor baby.

When the doctor handles him, he becomes jelly and flattens out like a big pancake on the table, does his stress purring, and is blessed with so many words telling him he is the perfect cat, and we don’t know what’s wrong with Mommy and Daddy.  Surely, they exaggerate a bit.

Anyway…It’s not always easy talking about the garden these days. Vic’s losing control of it, but nothing’s new there.  September was just as hot as August, so no time out on the deck, and the water bill quadrupled. October has given us mornings with crisp fresh air caressing one’s face.  Feels so good, but afternoons still reach the nineties.  Without the shade the Ash Tree once produced, the back yard looks ragged and worn out in this unrelenting heat.

I’m not sure if the dogwood died, or if it just went dormant early. Next spring will tell the complete story. It breaks my heart when I walk in the garden, so I do it less than more.  I really don’t feel like the title gardener fits me anymore.  Today’s my sister’s birthday, and it makes me miss her even more.  I seem to have no one to confide in…bummer! What an utterly lonely feeling.  I must fight to not let it depress me.

It’s afternoon already, and breakfast is just a dream that will not come to pass.  I picked some butter lettuce for lunch to make a salad with hard cooked eggs and avocado.  The seed catalog said this butter lettuce would survive hot weather, and they are correct.  It doesn’t get shaded, and will become limp in the afternoons, but in the evening or early mornings it is quite nice.  I just let it go to seed and let the seeds plant themselves.  It has been surviving this way for three years, giving me two seasons of lettuce a year. Vegetables can have as pretty of flowers as anything else in the garden.

I am doing a little better, knock on wood, and my family doctor has been working with me to get the doses right of the three medications that cause extreme drowsiness for me.  I melt into a very deep sleep that would take a fire alarm at my ear to wake me up, so I have been a bit worried.

To you, my precious readers, who have stuck with me through thick and thin: thank you for letting me into your lives. You are a real blessing to me, and you give my life so much purpose. I could hug you to pieces! 

😊



Yvonne
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21 comments:

  1. Hello Yvonne,
    What beautiful photos of the butterflies and flowers these are.
    I wish you a lovely weekend.
    All the best, Irma

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  2. Sweat Bees have been prolific this year; either that or I have become more adept at finding them. As for geese leaving a trace of their passage, I recently did a presentation on Canada Geese, by “special request” and worked in some humour about their traces. It was the cause of great mirth! Have a lovely weekend.

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  3. I learned more this morning that I did in entomology class in the '60s, thanks!

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  4. Hi Yvonne, Just lost my comment and I hate when that happens. Anyway, great photos and close ups of our garden friends. You got some amazing shots. I am so sorry about the loss of your sister and not being able to confide your life story to her. I only had one sibling, a brother, that I lost several years ago and I miss him, too. He knew my life story better than anyone. I hope your health improves. It's scary when we feel things are out of our control. Hugs- Diana

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  5. Hello Yvonne,
    Beautiful photos of the bees and asters. They are lovely.
    Your kitties must love those massages and the attention.
    Take care, enjoy your day and the weekend ahead.

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  6. OMG, your story about the cat carrier made me laugh! It was always a Battle Royale to get HRH in the carrier too. I had to hide the carrier in the bedroom, behind the bed, then act all casual while I strolled about the house. Quickly and unexpectedly snatching HRH up like a kidnapping, I would then run like hell to the bedroom to cram her into the top-loading carrier! My arms would be all scratched up but I held on tight! At the vet, she'd turn into the world's biggest sucky baby and be totally cooperative with the doctor, of course. And afterwards she was EAGER to get back in the carrier to go home! What a production!

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  7. It was such a joy to visit you today. (I've been checking every day for a new post!). You may not claim the term gardener anymore and I'll leave that to you. But you can certainly claim the term "photographer." Your photos are extraordinary. Granted, you had a glorious subject but there are a lot of flowers in the world and a lot of lousy photos! These are not!

    Meanwhile, I was laughing out loud about Austin and the cat carrier. I can so relate. It's getting a little better now, because LIzzie sleeps so much and if I'm cagey (pun only somewhat intended) I can just pick her up and stuff her in, though the yowls get fierce the second she gets on to me. But the worst was when I had to get the mattress and box springs off a full sized bed because she was smack in the middle and the pool noodle only sent her on a horizontal path to avoid it! I didn't know I was so strong and it's a darned good thing she we've figured out a bit of a trick with it now. Or at least, I think we have!

    I hope they get your meds regulated. I'm dealing with a similar situation -- probably different meds and reasons but still profoundly frustrating. I'm sure it will happen. Eventually. And finally, thanks for stopping by today! I wish I'd had Lizzie pix on that one!

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  8. Now my computer is filled with the beauty of your flowers and your words. I'm sorry you miss your sister. I'm sure it's very difficult for you.

    Love,
    Janie

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  9. Hello Yvonne,
    Your photos are stunning, love the flowers and just reading your post is a treat.
    Your story about the cat carrier is funny, I am glad your doctor is working on your meds. Thank you for linking up and sharing your post. Take care, have a great day and a happy weekend!

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  10. You take the most beautiful photos outside and always stay in such a good attitude. If there is something specific you would like me to pray about, please let me know. I care. Hugs, Diane

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  11. A gorgeous tribute to the fleeting nature of autumn. Love seeing the garden transition into autumn alongside the final visitors of the season. Awesome photos!

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  12. Wonderful post garnished with beautiful captures 😍

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  13. Great shots of the visitors and flowers!
    /Irene

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  14. Dear Yvonne :)
    Wonderful captures of the flowers and insects in your garden, and I enjoyed the poetry to. It was so funny to read about the palaver that goes on, just getting Austin into his carrier cage to take to the vet. Ha Ha! Cats must be mind readers,
    or have guessed what closing all the doors mean ! Crafty little darlings I'm glad you are getting your medication seen to. It makes all the difference once the correct dosage is found. Sending you warm hugs.
    All the best
    Sonjia.

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  15. What a poignant poem at the start and love all the beeeeautiful captures that proceeded. Wishing you good health and a gentle rain to offset the heat and dryness.

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  16. Wondrous post on the pollinators! The dogwoods here are looking very stressed right now.

    I hope the doctors get everything straightened out. I had a phone consultation with my primary doctor this morning, and we went over the results of the tests she ordered last time. I now have a diagnosis of neuropathy and will follow up with the neurologist. It’s always something!

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  17. Wow... how lovely scenes.
    Greetings by Heidrun ❤️

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  18. I am so sorry about the loss of your sister. Birthdays are always hard. Pretty purple flowers. We can certainly relate to your kitty story. I am happy to hear that you are doing better. Hopefully once you get used to the medicine they will not make your as drowsy any more. Take care!

    -Soma

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  19. Hello Yvonne,
    thank you for visiting my blog :-)
    I stopped by to take a look too and read your story. I think it is brave of you to share this with us. Unfortunately, I am familiar with the phenomenon of not sleeping much and sleeping with my eyes fixed on the ceiling, and I also have a CD playing in the bedroom with soothing music :-)
    I wish you lots of strength.
    I also enjoyed your photos of the flowers and the insects accompanying them, such as butterflies and bees, etc.
    Warm regards,

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  20. Hello Yvonne, I was just going through one of my old posts and saw your name. I hope I visited you at the time but here I am, dropping in to say hello. Your photos of all the flowers and pollinators brought me loads of smiles. I am so sorry for the loss of your sister. I miss mine too and she has been gone for many years. I am not a good sleeper either but this has been an ongoing thing with me since childhood. I hope your doctor will be able to help you and I will be sending you lots of good thoughts your way. If I have missed anything please forgive me. I tend to be a bit drifty this time of the evening. Happy 1st of November, may it be a very good month for you.

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